All the Nonsense Episode 2: Tell me one good thing that happens when you fall?

Ugly Girls and Boys need Love too 🦋

I wish I had said it earlier but if you hate a dandy bubble gum I would love for you to grab one and start munching on it as you read this article. And put on The Wisps Sings by Winter Aid in the background and buckle up for this one you might just want to cry or laugh.

I was watching Ginny and Georgia S3, and something just bothered me while watching it and it came at a time when I was already preparing this new episode plus I really wanted to talk about Ginny and Georgia so badly, lol. Well it’s all about the scene when love bird Bryon tells Bracia he loves her for the first time. And boy oh boy you dont have to watch the series to know what happens of course she starts to contemplate about everything asking her friend group “I dont know if I really love him, so I haven’t said it back. And before you start asking yourself where I am going with this I am getting there, Anyways I recently asked ChatGPT whats the opposite of Love and it told me that the opposite of love was hate.

And often we are told at this young tender age we cannot not know what love is, that all we do is lust and fornicate. Like how could we possibly know what love feels like let alone know how to give it. As if there is an age when we know what love is, and maybe that age is enchanted making our souls deeply feel at that point more than we already feel now. But don’t we know hate, dont we know it and recognize it so easily, when I say hate I am sure maybe someone comes to mind and maybe you may not hate them now but you once did. The point is you understand hate, you know it in all shapes and sizes, from your ex who you left because you heard a rumor they were cheating, to that friend in your friend group whose voice is always on top of the others and just holds more gravity than the others, to that teacher who thinks they are saturated with all the knowledge in the subject so they are arrogant cannot even admit when they are wrong.

Okay fine maybe I am doing a little too much, but I think you get my point that when it comes to hate we know it with too much familiarity and understand it with so much more depth, we see it more often. But what about love, when I say that do just as many people come to mind, and not just from the present but from the past to the ones you once loved, well besides maybe your parents and close relatives how about anyone else you are not related to, can you still find a space in you to love someone?

Well we dont need to be related to hate each other but love? Love does not come as easy as hate because we feel like love just has more gravity and we must overthink where we love but never care to overthink where we hate. Or maybe it’s because we fall in love but don’t fall in hate and like Colleen Hoover said falling is such a sad word to put it next to love, and one thing I know about humans is that we don’t like doing sad things. And maybe we are afraid to just love because it involve falling and falling is scary and when we choose where we love we must know we are not falling to our death. That we are falling into a place that will not break our fragile hearts. I know when it comes to love we just don’t play, we are stingy as if where ever it comes from it finishes with every person your pour your love into. But when it comes to hate, oh boy we are just so undeniably generous. We give it up to anyone and without even asking. I mean who are you to call someone else ugly, to make a list and rank them from who has the sharpest curves to who has the prettiest face. Ugly girls and ugly boys want love too, and it’s fine if you want to be stingy with yours but don’t make it seem like loving these people is a waste of love by cultures like this.

I sometimes think we overprice love and make hate and bitterness our main currency of exchange, because maybe hate and bitterness is just cheaper, it’s more available and easily accessible. And I hate when people always blame society, “Society this…, Society that…” because it puts distance between them and the problem when in actual fact society is you and I. So every time you want to say society replace it with you and me because we are part of the problem too. We make love a premium offer we give to those that are special to us and I get that, but it’s time the price of hate and bitterness got inflated too, don’t you think? That this culture of cancel culture and negativity must stop or at least reduce. If I were to architect language I would put fall and hate together, introduce “fall in hate” and not “fall in love”, to make the price of hate greater than anything. Let’s quit all the nonsense, and I don’t say all this because I am the holiest than thou but as a human, who just wants to live in a world where the price of love and care is cheaper than a Dandy Bubblegum.

Till Next Episode

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